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The Divine Complement 😇 Your Next Level Soul Mate is Coming (if you do the inner work)

“Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along."  -Rumi

My spirit team has given me a not-so-subtle nudge into my next most aligned soul purpose work. How do I know it's most aligned? Because it makes me light up like a Christmas tree!

So in this week's vlog I want to dive into the concept of the divine complement. Strap in, because it's not exactly what you might expect.

I want to make it clear that when I talk about soulmates or divine complements, I'm not referring to the conventional idea that many people may have in mind. This journey isn't just about finding someone to complete us in a romantic sense; it's about profound inner transformation and alignment with our highest selves. This is the next evolution of human relationship and, as a result, the human race.

Let's debunk the myth of soulmates as saviors. Instead, think of them as mirrors reflecting our innermost selves. This journey isn't about finding someone to fill a void; it's about deepening our understanding of self-love and shadow work.

Through my own experiences, I've learned that facing our shadow is essential for growth. It's not always pretty or comfortable, but it's necessary. Only by confronting our wounded motivation can we truly evolve.

Over the past few years, I've experienced what can only be described as monumental challenges—tests of initiation that have pushed me to the brink of my limits. From separation and divorce to financial hardship to encounters with cosmic forces beyond most people's understanding, I've been through it all. And let me tell you, it hasn't been easy. There were moments when I questioned if I had the strength to carry on, but through it all, I've come to realize the true purpose of our human existence.

We aren't here simply to live comfortable lives; we're here to undergo soul-shaking experiences that propel us toward growth and self-realization. My own father's journey with terminal illness taught me that life's challenges serve as wake-up calls, prompting us to reassess our priorities and align with our soul's purpose.

In the midst of adversity, I've discovered that our greatest work lies in transmuting negativity into positivity, transforming hardship into opportunity, fear into love. Lemonade from lemons. This process involves shedding old identities and conditioned patterns that no longer serve us. It's about reclaiming our sovereignty and embracing our inner warrior/alchemist.

When it comes to divine complement relationships, it's essential to understand that they aren't about finding someone to fill our perceived gaps or validate our existence. Instead, they're about mirroring the inner work we've done and providing a platform for mutual growth and evolution.

These relationships transcend codependency, embodying a harmonious blend of complementary energies. They challenge us to confront our shadows, embrace vulnerability, and operate from a place of authenticity and integrity.

Make no mistake—this journey isn't for the faint of heart. It requires courage, resilience, and a willingness to confront our deepest fears. There will be moments of doubt, shame, resistance, and discomfort, but it's through these trials that we truly come into our greatest power: the love we have always been.

In Unity 

A'sha Love

P.S. Registration is open for my Spring Equinox "Healing with Higher Harmonics" virtual clinic. This may be the portal to a new reality you've been looking for!  Learn more and register here:


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