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Facing My Shadow of Lone Wolf 🐺

I want to share a deeply personal journey with you—a journey that has brought me to a point of asking for your help. This isn’t easy for me, but I believe it’s a vital step towards creating a more balanced and harmonious life, both personally and collectively.

For a while now, I’ve felt a strong nudge from my higher guidance to delve into shadow work around hyper-independence. It’s a topic I’ve been resistant to address, but as we navigate this Healing Renaissance, it’s clear that this is where the real work lies.

The Trap of Hyper-Independence:

In our metaphysical explorations, we often get caught up in the fascinating aspects of higher frequencies and harmonics. However, these higher energies amplify whatever is present within us. If there’s imbalance, it becomes extreme. Many of us have been in seemingly endless stages of deconstruction, tearing down old foundations to build something new and more healthy and balanced.

The shadow that’s been brought to my attention in big ways in recent weeks is hyper-independence, or counter-dependency—a stark contrast to codependency. If you’ve spent your life being overly self-reliant and avoiding dependence on others, like I have, you know how isolating this can be. This pattern often stems from early childhood wounds and creates a distorted view of self-sufficiency.

Reflecting on My Journey

Reflecting on my life, I left home at 17 and have been fiercely independent ever since. Only recently did I connect the dots that a caregiver’s sudden disappearance when I was very young deeply impacted me, instilling a belief that I had to navigate life alone. This has led to a lifelong pattern of hyper-independence.

In shamanic traditions, we often look to the outer world for reflections of our inner state. Recently, as I was preparing to make this video, I witnessed baby Eastern Phoebe flycatchers leaving their nest. This event symbolized a need to let go of my lone-wolf mentality and accept help, just as these fledglings rely on their parents for support.

A Call for Balance

I’ve come to realize that this hyper-independence is unsustainable. It’s a distortion that needs healing so that I can move forward in a balanced way. My journey of shadow work has shown me that while I’ve been adept at helping others, I’ve struggled to accept help myself. This realization is humbling and a bit daunting, but it’s necessary for growth.

Asking for Help

Here’s where I need your support. Due to an unexpected and major financial setback, I’m facing a challenging time. I had planned several programs and activities, but a significant client fee did not come through. This situation has forced me to confront my need for assistance and to reach out to my community.

Ways You Can Help:

Philanthropy and Partnerships: If you are a philanthropist or know someone who is, I would love to discuss my passion project. I envision creating an educational foundation to offer multidimensional meditation experiences to a broader audience at little to no cost. This foundation, called “Love is the Foundation,” would require an endowment to cover operating expenses. Please direct interested parties to me directly by emailing I'm happy to discuss the vision and collaborate - I have more than ten years of experience in the nonprofit sector.

Private Sessions and Courses: You can support me by booking private sessions, purchasing courses, or making donations. I have various offerings designed to help you on your spiritual journey, and your participation would greatly aid me during this period.

Housing Assistance: If you have a second home or vacation property that you could make available for a year or two, this would provide a stable base for me (and my daughter) to continue my work and expand my outreach.

Non-Monetary Support: Testimonials, referrals, and sharing my content are invaluable. If my work has impacted you, sharing your experience can help others find their way to these resources. Additionally, sending positive energy is always appreciated.

Building a Collaborative Future

As we move towards a new era of unity consciousness, it’s crucial to break down the silos of individualism and learn to support each other. This healing renaissance calls for us to be vulnerable, to ask for help, and to collaborate. By coming together, we can create a foundation of love and support that benefits everyone.

Thank you for being part of this journey. Your support, in whatever form it takes, is deeply appreciated. Together, we can build a new way of being that embraces balance, harmony, and unity.

With gratitude 💗

A'sha Love

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Let’s co-create a world where love truly is the foundation! 🌐


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